THE PROPER INTRODUCTION

sinceseven — Wed, 14 Oct 2009 18:23:17 +0000

Fellas don’t a afraid to match. Women love a men that knows fashion, like you took sometime to put something together. You can wear this for occasions like weddings, upscale dinner date, and if you are really trying to get some attention, to high class club or lounge.

Advice: try 3 colors with suits such as this you don’t have to stay with just black and gray. You can add some spice to it, like throw a red tie and hankie in it or something of that sort, it brings out a little something in the fit.

The Presentation

Have your own style

a.) The trends you see on tv are not the fly trends… get out of the g-unit look.

b.) If you consider yourself a man, don’t be afraid to dress with slacks and a collar shirt

c.) Don’t be afraid of color, wearing only earth tones is not going to increase your swag.

d.) The baggy look is played out. But so are the skinny-legged jeans. Get something that compliments you.

e.) Please, please, please stay groomed. Don’t be afraid of proactive.

f.) If you ask any women their favorite scent on a men it’s after he gets out the shower, so stay fresh!!!

g.) Don’t have no shady shoes!!! Make sure your shoe game is in tact. If you need help b/c funds are low email us and we will send you to the right stores for the right price.

2. Choose your battles

Don’t choose the women let her choose you

a.) That doesn’t mean let her approach, but don’t just jump on everything you see. Make sure there is some connection first.

b.) Be confident in yourself, if she looks at you don’t look away, but know you are fly and don’t stare either. Understand why she is staring at you and keep things simple.

c.) Watch her interaction with friends and other males

The First talk

HAVE CONFIDENCE!!!!!

a.) By judging how she is with her friends and other males is the way you approach her.

If she is shooting every guy down, she probably is very confident and very picky. That means you have to be more confident than she is.
Don’t talk about yourself and really LISTEN to what she has to say
REMEMBER HER NAME!!!!
You are a good person and let her see that, so be yourself and not what you think she would want you to be.
Make eye contact the whole time.
Tell her exactly how you feel about her. She understands you don’t know her so let her know you are attracted to her, but her personality is what should be more important. That’s why you’re over here, to know her personality b/c her looks only got you to walk over.
Know your surroundings: If you are in a high atmosphere (ie. Club, lounge, social gathering) please respect the women enough not to pull out your phone and get her number. Let her know you can walk her to her car, or you will see her again.
Make sure you leave her with something to remember you by…nothing wack, or dramatic. Something different ( ie. A nickname for her, but no baby or pet name.)
Keep it on a friendship level, don’t just jump out there like y’all are getting married tomorrow, you don’t know her yet.

10. Walk her to her car, or destination. The longer you spend with her listening the more she will remember. But don’t overstay your welcome. Know when to get out and leave her wanting more of you.

11. Before you walk away reference something she told you early so she knows you were listening.

Written by:

Jareem Gunter and Terry Braggs

The Proper Introduction

THE PROPER INTRODUCTION